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How to be a π good woman π π Learn to say No, kindly. Donβt obviscate, but simply let your Yes be a π€ Yes π₯ that you can handle, and your No a π€ No π you π can stand by. Donβt compromise if itβs π going to take more π₯ from you than you π have to give. π Learn that not π all π― men are Good π Men. π Yes, theyβll be kind to π you because you bring kindness out of π― them, but that doesnβt mean theyβre a good spouse option. If a man doesnβt respect your boundaries, let him π€ go. He can stay π€ an acquaintance, but π― not a lover. Decide what you π€ want out of life, and only adapt π₯ if itβs bringing you π in a better π― direction than you first imagined. Forgive quickly, but expect π₯ a chance π€ before you π put yourself in the π same situation. If someone canβt handle your boundaries, in π₯ a certain area, donβt invite π that person into π that area of your life π until they display a π change. π Be confident in your abilities. You have skills others donβt, and thatβs good. π₯ Be π₯ confident in π those skills, but donβt π mock others π who π donβt have them. Instead, π encourage and teach them what π you know and can do. Learn to celebrate the π little things, and encourage people π who π are trying, even if it doesn't go π₯ well. Learn π to ask if they want π€ help/input, instead of π― giving unsolicited advice. Learn the differences π€ between men π and π₯ woman, and celebrate men instead π of cutting them down. Speak truth even when π₯ if π it's uncomfortable or scary. Be authentic.
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