Subema on Nostr: Well, first of all, you do not rent yourself as a domme, you get paid tributes. :D ...
Well, first of all, you do not rent yourself as a domme, you get paid tributes. :D
But real talk. There are a lot, like A LOT, of kinks out there, so discovering what you like/dislike and what are your soft/hard limits is a good idea beforehand. Second, you need to be confident in that role, both for your sake and the sake of the sub.
Maybe don't frame it like a Domme thing first but just start lightly. Like "looking for a boytoy to polish my pegging skills, tribute required" kind of thing (given you are into pegging, but you get the gist). I'm willing to bet that a lot of people are afraid/have the wrong image about professional Dommes (like having dungeons, latex catsuits, whips, the whole Hollywood domme caricature), so it may actually be easier to get lucky going in the opposite direction.
But real talk. There are a lot, like A LOT, of kinks out there, so discovering what you like/dislike and what are your soft/hard limits is a good idea beforehand. Second, you need to be confident in that role, both for your sake and the sake of the sub.
Maybe don't frame it like a Domme thing first but just start lightly. Like "looking for a boytoy to polish my pegging skills, tribute required" kind of thing (given you are into pegging, but you get the gist). I'm willing to bet that a lot of people are afraid/have the wrong image about professional Dommes (like having dungeons, latex catsuits, whips, the whole Hollywood domme caricature), so it may actually be easier to get lucky going in the opposite direction.