midway on Nostr: Yeah, I guess I can open this can of worms. As I stated before exceptions apply but ...
Yeah, I guess I can open this can of worms. As I stated before exceptions apply but this is what I see as the norm.
Women are hypergamous by nature. This makes sense considering their biological role. But as women earn more and gain economically, the pool of desirable men shrinks. So most of them end up chasing the top 10%. The upshot of this is that those guys are flooded with options and have little incentive to settle. So they don’t.
This problem is multiplied by the fact that women spend their best years chasing careers while sport fucking. That’s all well and good for them but by the time they want to settle down they don’t have as much value in the sexual/dating marketplace. They have been taught that they shouldn’t need a man. Again, that’s all well and good but why would a man settle down with a woman who doesn’t need him?
In my opinion this all comes down to the false idea that men and women are basically the same. They are not. They want different, complementary things. If women want to go the college career route while they are young, that’s fine but successful men, the men these women want, don’t care about that. If a woman can do everything on her own, what is there for a man to do?
To be fair, this goes both ways. Young people have this crazy idea that that the opposite sex is just like them so they try to be like what they want thinking that will attract the other. So you see men being less masculine (being told their whole life that their masculinity is “toxic”). Most women don’t like this either.
I realize this is apostasy these days but men and women by nature want different things in a mate. The more we, as a society, try to fight this, the more we will fail.
While I believe it’s impossible to “have it all”, if women really want a career and a family the best way to do this is exactly the reverse order that most are trying to achieve it. Settle down early. Have your kids. Raise your kids. Once they are in school full time, then start going to college, and start your career in your mid to late 30s. The kids will need less hands on just as she needs more devote more time outside the home. Doing it the other way is far more difficult and, ultimately, leads to the demographic collapse we see today.
Now I’ll sit back and watch the blocks happen. :)
Women are hypergamous by nature. This makes sense considering their biological role. But as women earn more and gain economically, the pool of desirable men shrinks. So most of them end up chasing the top 10%. The upshot of this is that those guys are flooded with options and have little incentive to settle. So they don’t.
This problem is multiplied by the fact that women spend their best years chasing careers while sport fucking. That’s all well and good for them but by the time they want to settle down they don’t have as much value in the sexual/dating marketplace. They have been taught that they shouldn’t need a man. Again, that’s all well and good but why would a man settle down with a woman who doesn’t need him?
In my opinion this all comes down to the false idea that men and women are basically the same. They are not. They want different, complementary things. If women want to go the college career route while they are young, that’s fine but successful men, the men these women want, don’t care about that. If a woman can do everything on her own, what is there for a man to do?
To be fair, this goes both ways. Young people have this crazy idea that that the opposite sex is just like them so they try to be like what they want thinking that will attract the other. So you see men being less masculine (being told their whole life that their masculinity is “toxic”). Most women don’t like this either.
I realize this is apostasy these days but men and women by nature want different things in a mate. The more we, as a society, try to fight this, the more we will fail.
While I believe it’s impossible to “have it all”, if women really want a career and a family the best way to do this is exactly the reverse order that most are trying to achieve it. Settle down early. Have your kids. Raise your kids. Once they are in school full time, then start going to college, and start your career in your mid to late 30s. The kids will need less hands on just as she needs more devote more time outside the home. Doing it the other way is far more difficult and, ultimately, leads to the demographic collapse we see today.
Now I’ll sit back and watch the blocks happen. :)