Hudlemel on Nostr: how is that false hope present if you should have been more clear with what your ...

how is that false hope present if you should have been more clear with what your needs are instead of keeping it hidden

if it is financial then it should have been made clear is what I believe as i can certainly understand that life is tough in the current system that we have and let's be honest if I was in a place where i would require financial sustenance then there would be some wrongs committed as to keep the relationship afloat

What i do believe is that the idea of cheating is completely based on the individual needs

Whether it's for people to escape from a toxic relationship by people and to seek sexual pleasure and social relationship with people they truly like and

The needs for cheating would also come under those who are opportunistic and only seek sexual gratification from many people while keeping their partners as a trophy which usually what those with higher status people while having multiple partners in secret

Regardless the idea still remains that cheating could be avoided if there was more honesty amongst the partners and if it is done for a requirement like having a financially stable partner while seeking relationships with others which the partner does not provide

Anyways under the current system which has such wealth inequality cheating is to be expected from those who aren't financially independent so I don't blame them for what they do but I do think that those who are rich or opportunistic and do it for sole sexual gratification as they consider others as objects are the ones who deserve scrutiny