StellarStoic on Nostr: Nowdays marriage is completely obsolete imo. Two can have the best time of their ...
Nowdays marriage is completely obsolete imo. Two can have the best time of their lives without being married even if they have a child.
Marriage is an old social contract of two families coming together to create more of combined wealth.
The question is, when Love got into this mix? Love is easily achieved without marriage and history shows marriages can't buy love.
I notice people from more rural parts of the country will absolutely get married. This comes from, I can't say it a pressure but to make granny and parents happy. Most of them are still stuck in old times and tradition must go on.
On the contrary people in bigger cities are thinking less about getting married. Maybe that's because living in a city is way more expensive.
I have nothing against marriages
If both partners are up for it and can afford it without getting in debt because she really wishes the big ceremony go for it, but let's be real. All the money spent on the marriage, is money thrown away. Unless you swimm in it.
There are offices with stamps to stamp your papers for way, wat less and bam, you're married afterwards. But if you wanna have a big party where you gonna hear sooner then later from your new wife how she saw you looking at one of her girlfriends 🥳 break a wallet and prepare for a mental breakdown because its coming.
Marriage is an old social contract of two families coming together to create more of combined wealth.
The question is, when Love got into this mix? Love is easily achieved without marriage and history shows marriages can't buy love.
I notice people from more rural parts of the country will absolutely get married. This comes from, I can't say it a pressure but to make granny and parents happy. Most of them are still stuck in old times and tradition must go on.
On the contrary people in bigger cities are thinking less about getting married. Maybe that's because living in a city is way more expensive.
I have nothing against marriages
If both partners are up for it and can afford it without getting in debt because she really wishes the big ceremony go for it, but let's be real. All the money spent on the marriage, is money thrown away. Unless you swimm in it.
There are offices with stamps to stamp your papers for way, wat less and bam, you're married afterwards. But if you wanna have a big party where you gonna hear sooner then later from your new wife how she saw you looking at one of her girlfriends 🥳 break a wallet and prepare for a mental breakdown because its coming.