caitp on Nostr: you can wear band merch to meet people you can be comfortable with, who won't be ...

you can wear band merch to meet people you can be comfortable with, who won't be uncomfortable when you crank the stereo in your car. just don't try to compete with them for who is the bigger fan or whatever, and don't quiz them on songs. just spend time together, go to shows, talk about the music. make each other mixes. or maybe they just like the aesthetics, which is also fine