DebonaireToast 🎵 on Nostr: Criticisms can be mean or petty, and they can even be wrong. But I don't need to ...
Criticisms can be mean or petty, and they can even be wrong.
But I don't need to pretend not to be myself to deal with it.
Why did he? Why does he need people to think so well of his work? He can not follow instruction without violating boundaries. He can not be told "I did not like this" without complete shutdown.
But he gave me advice I did not ask for, and did not suit me.. because it was displacement or projection or something.
It was not for or about me, it was an admission of weakness.
But I don't need to pretend not to be myself to deal with it.
Why did he? Why does he need people to think so well of his work? He can not follow instruction without violating boundaries. He can not be told "I did not like this" without complete shutdown.
But he gave me advice I did not ask for, and did not suit me.. because it was displacement or projection or something.
It was not for or about me, it was an admission of weakness.