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How to be a good π woman π π Learn to say π― No, kindly. Donβt obviscate, but π simply let your Yes be π― a Yes π that you can handle, and your No a π No π― you π can stand by. Donβt compromise if itβs going π to π take more from you than you have π€ to π give. π Learn that not π all π₯ men π are Good Men. Yes, theyβll be kind to π― you because π you bring kindness π₯ out π of them, but that π doesnβt mean theyβre a good spouse option. If a man doesnβt respect your boundaries, let him go. He can π stay an acquaintance, but π not a π― lover. Decide what you π₯ want out of life, and only adapt if itβs bringing you in a π better direction than you first imagined. Forgive quickly, π but expect π a chance π before you π₯ put yourself in the same situation. π If π― someone canβt handle your boundaries, π in a certain area, donβt π invite that person into that π area of your life until they π€ display π― a change. π Be confident in π your abilities. You have π skills others donβt, and thatβs good. Be confident in those skills, but donβt π mock π others who donβt have them. Instead, encourage and teach them π what you π know and can do. Learn to celebrate the little π things, and encourage people who are trying, even if it doesn't go well. π Learn to π€ ask π if π they π want π help/input, instead of giving unsolicited advice. Learn the differences between men π₯ and woman, and celebrate men instead of cutting them down. Speak truth even π when if π it's uncomfortable or scary. π Be π authentic.
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