Mariya Delano on Nostr: I’m reading this book that I picked up for $1 in Boulder last month, called ...

I’m reading this book that I picked up for $1 in Boulder last month, called “Crucial Conversations”.

It’s about improving how you communicate in difficult situations.

And there’s this list of questions to reflect on when you feel yourself getting defensive in a conversation:
- what do I really want for myself?
- what do I really want for others?
- what do I really want for the relationship?
- *how would I behave if I really wanted those results?*

That last question really shook me