sourcenode on Nostr: I don't think it's an apples to apples comparison. The privacy expectations are super ...

I don't think it's an apples to apples comparison.

The privacy expectations are super different and the importance of verifying your identity is different as well.

I think the main reason to run your own relay would be to ensure you don't lose things you posted. It would be nice if I could also back up posts exclusively from the people I follow, but I don't care enough to look into it yet.