Doc Impossible on Nostr: I just had an interaction on with somebody that left me legitimately rattled so: If, ...

I just had an interaction on with somebody that left me legitimately rattled so:

If, when you raise a problem with a partner, they deny having done so and accuse you of having done it

If they throw things during arguments, even if not *at you*

If you don't feel safe from their outbursts when you share things important to you

If they shower you in affection when things are bad

If you don't feel safe at home

That's the cycle of domestic abuse and control. Your partner is abusing you.