starfury on Nostr: any advice for someone coming back to Nostr after 6 months ?... i am using ...

any advice for someone coming back to Nostr after 6 months ?...

i am using snort.social on desktop, amethyst on android ..... i confess it still seems slow and unresponsive and for some reason my first post back looks lost. .....

is there some repository of current best practices/relays/etc ?

thank you =) ∞ <3