purrs_for_Her on Nostr: it depends. i guess it could be—like a deep need for approval..? but a lot of "nice ...
it depends. i guess it could be—like a deep need for approval..?
but a lot of "nice guys" are only nice to get something out of it. if they get told "no," they become not so "nice."
what do you mean by defensive mechanism?
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