Vitor Pamplona on Nostr: It could be because of the number of follows. Usually relays don't accept anything ...

It could be because of the number of follows. Usually relays don't accept anything over 2000 follows. This got expanded by using the Outbox model that only connects to each follow's home relays, but if more than 1000 of your follows use the same large relays, the problem persists.

Likely you are only getting updates when the few relays that serve over 2000 follow lists are not busy.

Some clients, including past Amethyst, would crop the list and only try the latest 1000 follows. That might be why you see others working. But they might not load all your follow list.

I suggest breaking the list down using listr.lol on a desktop.