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Musashi
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2025-01-13 15:16:20
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Musashi on Nostr: In my opinion, dating nowadays has gotten weird due to the existence of social media, ...

In my opinion, dating nowadays has gotten weird due to the existence of social media, easy hook-ups by using apps like Tinder and porn.
People have too high expectations, mainly most women, due to wanting a man that is young, mature, full of muscle, good looking, above 6 feet and rich, all at the same time, which is unreasonable because all them require time and dedication that can't be given to all at the same time in high quantities.
Men tend to want a good enough looking girl that isn't crazy, can cook, knows how to behave, will be a good mother and will give you space when you need it.
If you come off as abrasive, maybe you need to work on yourself. Ask your family and real friends.
I read the comment about the guy that ghosted you and it doesn't matter if it's a woman or men, that's just a lack of respect and ill behaviour that usually signifies egocentrism.
Judging by your profile picture, you seem attractive to most men, so that's one thing you have to keep in mind, as it is in men's nature to think about sex first, probably due to how the brain works, as we're programmed to procreate.
You probably know this already, the best men to seek are the ones that are usually labelled as "the good guy" and tend to be put in the friendzone. The ones to avoid were the cool party guys that acted like scumbags in school. This is why we are currently seeing a record of single childless women and a study has shown it most probably will go up.
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