annsofinovelist on Nostr: I heard a lady say she only had enough to focus on her son, so she was no longer with ...

I heard a lady say she only had enough to focus on her son, so she was no longer with the dad, even though they were still friends.
I wondered if part of her issue was the lie that a woman would also be trying to raise they man.
Like how some women say things like, I have two kids, one toddler and one who acts like a toddler.

I'm extremely happy that I do not believe such lies about men, and when I chose my husband, I was looking for a partner, and not a man husband who sometimes babysit our kids.
I also don't believe the lie that in order to be responsible, I need to act serious.
I think a lot of women might fall for that one, at least a lot of the women who start resenting their husbands for "being too childish and not helping out".

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