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How to get what you want from a man 🤔
Try telling him what you want him to do, without the story. Ask straight questions, and give straight answers.
I struggle with the latter, but I’m also a verbal processor and sometimes I don’t know what I want, so when my husband asks me a question, I need to verbally figure out what I want, before I can give him the straight answer. We made a deal where I try my best to let him know if I’m processing, so he knows how to listen.
Try telling him what you want him to do, without the story. Ask straight questions, and give straight answers.
I struggle with the latter, but I’m also a verbal processor and sometimes I don’t know what I want, so when my husband asks me a question, I need to verbally figure out what I want, before I can give him the straight answer. We made a deal where I try my best to let him know if I’m processing, so he knows how to listen.