timechainman on Nostr: You have a million percent right to ask any of these questions: 1. How do you ...
You have a million percent right to ask any of these questions:
1. How do you typically handle conflict in relationships?
2. Can you describe a time when you were really angry? How did you react?
3. Have you ever felt like you lost control during an argument? What happened?
4. How do you handle rejection or disappointment?
5. When was the last time you had to walk away from a situation because you were getting too upset?
6. What does “power exchange” mean to you in a relationship?
7. How do you differentiate between dominance and control?
8. Have you ever felt the need to intimidate someone to get your way?
9. Do you believe physical force is ever justified in a relationship?
10. How do you ensure your partners feel safe and respected in your presence?
11. Have you ever been in a situation where someone accused you of being aggressive or violent?
12. What do your past partners usually say about you?
13. Have you ever had a restraining order against you?
14. What do you think are red flags in a relationship?
15. How do you handle it when a partner sets a boundary you don’t agree with?
16. What do safe words mean to you, and how do you respond to them?
17. Have you had experience in BDSM before? How did you learn about consent and boundaries?
18. How do you check in with your partners after an intense scene?
19. What are your thoughts on aftercare?
20. What would you do if a partner told you they felt unsafe around you?
Pay close attention to their body language, tone, and willingness to engage in these conversations. If they dismiss the importance of consent, show signs of defensiveness, or seem irritated by the discussion, those are red flags. Stay safe!
Again, any denial or hesitation to answer is a RED FLAG!!! Walk away 🙏🏽
1. How do you typically handle conflict in relationships?
2. Can you describe a time when you were really angry? How did you react?
3. Have you ever felt like you lost control during an argument? What happened?
4. How do you handle rejection or disappointment?
5. When was the last time you had to walk away from a situation because you were getting too upset?
6. What does “power exchange” mean to you in a relationship?
7. How do you differentiate between dominance and control?
8. Have you ever felt the need to intimidate someone to get your way?
9. Do you believe physical force is ever justified in a relationship?
10. How do you ensure your partners feel safe and respected in your presence?
11. Have you ever been in a situation where someone accused you of being aggressive or violent?
12. What do your past partners usually say about you?
13. Have you ever had a restraining order against you?
14. What do you think are red flags in a relationship?
15. How do you handle it when a partner sets a boundary you don’t agree with?
16. What do safe words mean to you, and how do you respond to them?
17. Have you had experience in BDSM before? How did you learn about consent and boundaries?
18. How do you check in with your partners after an intense scene?
19. What are your thoughts on aftercare?
20. What would you do if a partner told you they felt unsafe around you?
Pay close attention to their body language, tone, and willingness to engage in these conversations. If they dismiss the importance of consent, show signs of defensiveness, or seem irritated by the discussion, those are red flags. Stay safe!
Again, any denial or hesitation to answer is a RED FLAG!!! Walk away 🙏🏽