Interpipes 💙 on Nostr: falling into d/s as I did worked very well for me on that front as well because I ...

falling into d/s as I did worked very well for me on that front as well because I learned very quickly about exploiting the response I got with denial/teasing building that deep frisson of excitement, so that also was a big part of the lightbulb moment in terms of feeling/thinking about “desirable in an alternative way”.