starnold on Nostr: With bitcoin you only have to remember your private key. But with nostr, should it be ...

With bitcoin you only have to remember your private key.

But with nostr, should it be the standard to remember your private key + relays?

If you forgot what you connected with, does it mean you're losing a bit of yourself? Especially if you connect to different relays in different clients.

What's the best way to find back what "your relays" are?