slowmonkey on Nostr: The way out of hate spirals is just to feel sorry for the haters and bullies. That ...
The way out of hate spirals is just to feel sorry for the haters and bullies. That releases you psychologically, and they lose any power to trigger your defenses. They are genuinely hurting in themselves and it must be horrible to be them. But they have to live their life, you don't have to live it for them. Let it go with a compassionate glance. Get on with being you.
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