FortyTwo™ on Nostr: the problem with hate is that it ties you to the object of your hatred as tightly as ...

the problem with hate is that it ties you to the object of your hatred as tightly as love does.

Think back to anyone you ever might've hated. You could imagine every detail of their appearance, every mannerism, the inflection of every syllable they spoke. Every detail of them is indelibly etched in your memory and it drives blood pressure, cortisol, anxiety, GI trouble, etc.

Hate physically hurts you.