Hrefna (DHC) on Nostr: I am not, and I do not aim to be, nice. I strive in many cases to be kind, but ...

I am not, and I do not aim to be, nice.

I strive in many cases to be kind, but kindness is not the same as niceness.

I do not value niceness, I don't try to practice it, and sometimes the kindest things you can do are not remotely nice, and the nicest things you can do are not remotely kind.