Springtime for Zeon (Woggy Mk II) on Nostr: At a certain point, I’m more disappointed with the frequency people try to explain ...
At a certain point, I’m more disappointed with the frequency people try to explain this to me like I’m a 64 yo than I am the actual phenomenon. I know, you know, you don’t all have to keep pointing it out. Part of adapting today is allowing stuff like this turn from back-of-the-manual addendum into an innate part of your operating procedure.
Cold approaches are generally fruitless, the few that you do should be preceded by enough interaction that you do so after being ‘waved in’ by her nonverbal language.
Hearing this “yeah but rape accusations!” thing makes me worry about you all, it’s something to worry about when you’re young, insecure, inexperienced, and fearful. Careful target selection and a healthy bearing GREATLY reduces the risk of stuff like false accusations.
Cold approaches are generally fruitless, the few that you do should be preceded by enough interaction that you do so after being ‘waved in’ by her nonverbal language.
Hearing this “yeah but rape accusations!” thing makes me worry about you all, it’s something to worry about when you’re young, insecure, inexperienced, and fearful. Careful target selection and a healthy bearing GREATLY reduces the risk of stuff like false accusations.
quoting nevent1q…67ycThe problem is a lot of the "rejection" nowadays isn't "get away from me LOSER!" it is "I am reporting you to HR for sexual harassment" or "I am calling the cops, you are RAPING ME."
So it isn't just try again next time, it's now you are a convicted sex offender because a girl falsely accused you of rape.