Shaula Evans on Nostr: I don't think I have ever in my life been scolded, nagged, or publicly shamed* into ...

I don't think I have ever in my life been scolded, nagged, or publicly shamed* into positive change, especially by a random stranger.

However, I have definitely been educated, encouraged and supported to learn, change and grow, by many wonderful people.

I try to keep that in mind when engaging with others.

Because the big goals I'm working towards are more important than my need for catharsis.

*Not talking about ostracizing monsters, a different situation entirely.