Terribly Federated Mia on Nostr: I keep falling in love with Shadow DOM (automatic bits of template without the ...

I keep falling in love with Shadow DOM (automatic bits of template without the clutter!) and then getting burned and frustrated about styling. In 20 years, I've basically never seen a use-case that requires such strict isolation.

For example: I almost always want to provide buttons, and I basically never care what they look like. Of course the page should style them! Why is this so hard? Why does that require complicated work-arounds?!